Sunday, August 30, 2015

Transferring and making F-R-I-E-N-D-S!

As someone who has transferred from school to school, the number one challenge can be making friends. A strong social network can be key to succeeding in a new unfamiliar setting. However, it is not always easy to find people with common likes and interests.

First, start off by going outdoors and just walking around your campus or city. This will get you face to face contact with others. Another great place to start is the campus coffee shop or student union. These places attract the most number of students for you to introduce yourself.You can then approach those around you and introduce yourself. Once you have made introductions, you can ask them how they like the school and what they are studying. This is a great way to find a common area of interest.

If introducing yourself to random students on campus or in the city, then starting small and talking to the person next to you in your class is another great option. Asking the person next to you a question about your homework assignment can be a great way to break the ice. You can then transition into other topics and get to know the person next to you more in depth and potentially make a new friend.

If you are a shy person, then you can try using social media, such as Twitter, Instagram, or YikYak, to interact with people at your school. Sometimes it is easier to talk to people using technology where the fear of face to face rejection in minimized.

After you have introduced yourself and have found common interests, then you can set up a time to meet up and develop a lifelong friendship.

So go get out there and make some F-R-I-E-N-D-S!

4 comments:

  1. I love this. I completely understand where you are coming from because I was homeschooled for most of my life. Thanks for sharing!

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  2. I have been so busy with schoolwork and my job this semester that I haven't figured out a good way to make friends yet as a transfer student. Thanks for the tips, maybe I'll take a visit to the campus coffee shop soon!

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