Sunday, August 30, 2015

Transferring and making F-R-I-E-N-D-S!

As someone who has transferred from school to school, the number one challenge can be making friends. A strong social network can be key to succeeding in a new unfamiliar setting. However, it is not always easy to find people with common likes and interests.

First, start off by going outdoors and just walking around your campus or city. This will get you face to face contact with others. Another great place to start is the campus coffee shop or student union. These places attract the most number of students for you to introduce yourself.You can then approach those around you and introduce yourself. Once you have made introductions, you can ask them how they like the school and what they are studying. This is a great way to find a common area of interest.

If introducing yourself to random students on campus or in the city, then starting small and talking to the person next to you in your class is another great option. Asking the person next to you a question about your homework assignment can be a great way to break the ice. You can then transition into other topics and get to know the person next to you more in depth and potentially make a new friend.

If you are a shy person, then you can try using social media, such as Twitter, Instagram, or YikYak, to interact with people at your school. Sometimes it is easier to talk to people using technology where the fear of face to face rejection in minimized.

After you have introduced yourself and have found common interests, then you can set up a time to meet up and develop a lifelong friendship.

So go get out there and make some F-R-I-E-N-D-S!

About Trayvis

Hi, I am Trayvis Peters. I am from Miami, Florida. Currently, I am a student at Washburn University. In addition, I play football for the University. I have been a student at Washburn University since Fall 2014. I am majoring in Mass Media in hopes to someday work in the journalism field.

Previously, I have attended El Camino College in Torrance, California, ASA College in Brooklyn, New York, and the University of South Dakota. My experience as a student in these schools has given me the knowledge of transition to new schools, meet new people, and how to survive college. Therefore, I would like to share my knowledge and give advice to those who are just starting out in their higher education journey.